AN ENTANGLED BOND; THE FATHER CHILD DIARIES

The topic I have chosen for my blog is that of the relationship between the father and the child. So, what do we mean by a Father?  

Father, a word that stands for perfection, and he is a type of human being who is the backbone of the family. He is the role model of his child. The dad and child share a unique relationship between them.  The dad network aims to promote and encourage the role of Father within the family life.  

When the first time the Father held his child, his hands were shaking, eyes were wet and a pure flawless smile was gleaming on his face. The child, like a petal of the rose, tender and soft, lay in his arms, the bond was pure, and is still intact. 

Usually, people talk about a mother's love and affection in which a Father’s love often gets ignored. A Mother’s love is talked about repeatedly everywhere, in movies, in shows and more. Yet, what we fail to acknowledge is the strength of a Father which often goes unnoticed. Father’s a blessing which not many people have in their lives. It would also be wrong to say that every Father is the ideal hero for their kids because that is not the case.

Those kids who are fortunate to have Fathers should respect them. Father always advises on the life of a kid. He is the biggest role model of the kid. 

As we had listened so much that ''A Father is neither an anchor to hold us back nor a sail to take us there, but a guiding light whose love shows us the way''.  

The Father not only wants to develop a strong bond with their child but they also want to maintain a healthy relationship and adult friendships. He wants to act as a child's best friend.  But in today's modern scenario, things have changed the child wants to get free from their parents. They wanted to become independent in life.

In my opinion, being independent is good but being free from parents is not good. There is no adult friendship between Father and child because the child is scared to talk to their father. Perhaps the reason behind the hesitation to talk to Father would be their strictness to the child.  The strictness of the Father is the quality or condition of being strict towards their child. It's good to be strict but strictness would affect the relationship between Father and child. Father's strictness towards the child helps them to become strong and maintain an attentive attraction towards their life. 

 Some children take their strictness in a wrong way that their Father doesn't love them, which is not good because the love of a Father is slightly different from the love of a mother. It is somehow strict, over-protective, but it is a kind of love you can never exchange for anything else in the world. The pure love of Father which is so unique either it is expressed as strictness no matter.   

The main question arises that, How do we boost up the relationship between the Father and the child? 

 So, according to the child's point of view, the Father should be caring and their role model in life but they should help their child to develop a skill or talent that will last forever. Fathers should be jovial with them. They should make their child live life in their style. if their child loses in something they should encourage them to go ahead and advise them what their child did wrong and what right. In short, they should set high moral standards for their children.

  It's the situation that children need from their father. 

Now the most important thing, according to the Father's point of view what they want from their child to be like. The major expectation that the Father has for their children is that they excel in life. Be it academically, socially or even spiritually, their Father wants them to become the best they can be. That's all they want from their child.  

But in my opinion, that's not the only thing a Father wants from his child. They deserve to have respect for them from their child. Their child should obey them and never let them down and be with them forever.  

In the present scenario, we observe that there are many old-age NGOs in our country, where many old people live, who don't have space in their own child's home. That's so ruthless behavior from shameless people who let their parents leave their homes. 

  

THE ONLY MESSAGE I WOULD CONVEY FROM THIS BLOG THAT, "RESPECT YOUR ELDERS AND RESPECT YOUR PARENTS". 

DO NOT LET THEM GO AWAY. 

#BE WITH THEM FOREVER.